This is an advice only a wise lady can run with.
I was only a child when I first heard this from my grandma…
Long after she is dead, it is still an advice every lady should take.
But, what of those ladies who married a good prospect but never got anything good from it?
When they say, marry a man with good prospect, it does not mean:
marry a poor man that may become rich tomorrow.
Or a foolish man that may become wise tomorrow.
Who told you he will become rich or wise?
Have you ever head the saying…. By their fruits, you will know them?
That is how to tell a good prospect.
He must have assurance of what you expect him to become in the future.
A man who tells you he wants to become rich, but is always sleeping, watching movies, hanging out and talking with friends, that guy is wishing.. There is a big difference between a dreamer and a wisher.
The dreamer dreams of the nearest future and gets to work on it
the wisher wishes for the nearest future and hopes it comes on its own.
You want to know if he is a good prospect?
Take a look at his present, daily activities.
It will give you a pointer to where he is going in life.
When I met my husband, he had nothing.
Only wisdom, skills, hard work, the right attitude and desire to serve others.
Please my lady…help me do this maths
WISDOM+SKILLS+HARDWORK+RIGHT ATTITUDE+SERVICE= GREATNESS
SLEEPING+MOVIES+HANGING OUT+TALKING+LAZINESS= POVERTY
So, calculate your maths well before you decide if he is a prospect or a wisher.
If he does not have the right raw materials for greatness, he can never create greatness. 🚫Don’t stick with a loser all in the name of GOOD PROSPECT!
DO YOUR MATHS WELL!