Some ladies are unable to attract men no matter how hard they try. Is there a proven secret to attract men that attractive ladies know and you don’t?
When it comes to attracting men, ladies think it’s all physical. But that is only a small part of it. most often, it’s the small things you do that make the biggest difference.
So, what are the secrets to attract men? quickly, let’s delve into it.
What Do Men Find Attractive In Women?
Men are attracted to ladies who smile
Have you ever heard these words? “she who wants friends must first make herself friendly”?
That also applies to you.
You can’t go around looking like your world is about to crumble on your shoulder and expect to be approached by a man.
Think about any time you went out looking sad and depressed, didn’t you get remarks like “ What is wrong?”
If you look like things are bad with you, men will be reluctant to approach you.
A happy lady is more pleasant to be around.
People don’t like depression. They want joy. so to attract men, your smile is a major weapon.
Men are attracted to ladies with passion or purpose
Men are attracted to women who are purpose-driven. They don’t want to come into your life and become your everything. A woman becomes very attractive when there is more to what meets the eye.
So ask yourself..” what is my passion? What do I love doing that I can comfortably give even without profits” develop your passion and serve others with it?
Men are attracted to intelligent ladies
I have never seen a man who is not attracted to intelligent women unless men who need naive women to oppress.
Looking good is not all.
Knowing a little about everything will make you intelligent and versatile.
You will discover the change in the kind of men approaching you when you talk and behave intelligently.
Men are attracted to ladies with self-respect
Most ladies believe all a man wants is sex.
That is not true. Except that is all he wants from you, a man will love the lady who respects her body and knows how to say “no” more than one who gives sex at every request.
In fact, men believe if you give them sex, you definitely have been giving to other men without hesitation. That reduces your value in their eyes.
Men love moderate make-up
Most men know that your made-up face is not real. They know you look different without it and they want to see how you’ll look without makeup.
Most men believe you are hiding something, or that you are not very confident about your natural looks when you apply too much makeup.
I personally have a simple guideline for the application of makeup.
Enhance your natural beauty! Not change your face.
There should not be much difference between your natural and made-up faces.
Men love sacrificial ladies
Many ladies chase men far away from them by being too strict and uncompromising.
Love and family are built on compromise. A healthy habit of giving and receiving.
Always having your way does not make you strong and independent. No! It makes you a selfish person who needs no one.
You can have your life all put together, carer and all, yet still, be compromising when the need arises.
Steve Harvey says, “It is not what a man gives you that matters but the sacrifices he is willing to make for you”
The same goes for you.
It is selfish and unloving when you always want life to happen your way.
A lady can be attractive in so many ways and the goal of this article is to equip you to be fully attractive.
How to attract a man emotionally
1. Be more open. If you’re vulnerable with him, you’ll encourage him to do the same with you. even if you have been hurt before, you have to trust a little. he is just as scared as you but if you’re willing to open up to him and give the relationship a try, you’ll leave him with no choice but to open up to you.
2. Show him you care. Ladies are more affectionate towards their loved ones. so you have what it takes to show him you care. You don’t have to act cheap around him. there are simple ways to show care. play with him, give him your undiluted attention and be there when he needs a friend.
3. Don’t use his vulnerability against him. If you want him to open up emotionally, then you can’t use those vulnerabilities against him. If he shares something personal with you, keep them close to you. You’re not supposed to throw these vulnerabilities back into his face during a fight. Else he will become distant from you.
4. Enjoy quality time together. If you want to know how to attract a man emotionally and create a connection, then you need to spend quality time together. This doesn’t mean you need to be together 24/7, but you should see them on a regular basis and do most things with them. It’ll help build and maintain the connection.
5. Don’t be afraid to be yourself around him.
If you want to attract a man, you have to be your true self around him. You have to be willing to share almost everything. the good, bad and embarrassing. let him laugh at you and with you. If you treat the person you’re interested in like a casual acquaintance, they’re going to keep seeing you as that even if they are interested. If you want something more, don’t be afraid to open up and be a little too honest about yourself.
How to attract a man physically
Men are visual beings and you only need to know how to be visually appealing to attract a man physically. You want him to leave you thinking about how hot you are, and imagining what it will be like to hold you close to him. so how can you become so hot and appealing?
1. Apply Lipstick and lip gloss. Guys like to look at women’s lips, especially when you have beautiful ones. The idea is to enhance your natural beauty as much as you can.
2. A good pair of legs, specifically toned ones, will have many men turning their heads. Most men subconsciously see strong legs as a sign that you’re healthy and that in turn gets them interested.
3. Keep your hair neatly styled and smelling nice. Most men love a woman’s hair and there are men who care a lot about the color, and length of hair. so find out the style best fitting for your face and you will get heads turning.
4. Your curves. No, you don’t need to have large hips or breasts to get guys to be attracted to you. In fact, most men prefer average to slightly smaller sized breasts. As long as they are perky. if you are chubby, there are also men who prefer chubby ladies and will never find slender ladies attractive. what is most important is that you are fit and active.
5. Butt. Men have been staring at women’s behinds for ages. It’s biologically wired in men to want a girl with a large behind. The rounder your butt is, the more likely it is that guys take notice. Most men love booty, even if they won’t admit it.
What colors attract men’s attention
1. Black dresses will get his attention. This color represents style and elegance – men can’t help but be fascinated. Black screams mysterious which men want to solve and find highly desirable.
2. Pink colors will send a message that you are sweat and perhaps a little innocent. This color represents romance and soft crushes.
3. Green speaks wealth, freshness and friendly. It also says that you are approachable and are easy to talk to.
4. peach is a beautiful color for warm skin tones. It closely resembles pink and orange. If you have cool coloring, wear pink. If you have warm coloring, wear peach or coral. (an example of coral is the Edo local beads)
5. Red is the color of romance and passion and is very popular with strong men looking for a challenge. Weak men tend to shy away from women who wear red, seeing them as headstrong and overpowering. If you love the color red, be careful — the wrong shade can overpower you or highlight skin imperfections. Chose your shade with care
How to attract a man with body language
1. Make deliberate eye contact
The most important signals that you send to your crush or the man you are dating are those that you send through your eyes. Eye contact can work wonders for you to attract your Mr. Perfect. Once you have established eye contact with the man of your dreams, offer a sweet smile.
2. Flirt With Him
If you want to learn how to flirt, do this, Lick your lips amidst a conversation with him and give a shy smile. this will melt his heart. Women often do this subconsciously while they are talking to a man they are interested in.
3. Touch Him
Touch can be a powerful way to attract a man. A light touch on the shoulders or holding his hand is a great way to start.
4. Lean In
Try to get closer to him. If you’re sitting down and it’s not too awkward, sit next to him and let your legs touch underneath the table.
Scents that attract men
If you want to take this attraction game a littler farther, consider using perfumes men find attractive. The Social Issues Research Center said that any strong odor will have a stimulating effect, which will cause a general increase in blood flow to the extremities – inevitably including the penis. Surprisingly, research reveals that It wasn’t just perfume that attracted men. It was the scent of some common yummy foods that got the guys aroused.
1. Vanilla scent
It’s long been believed that vanilla is a natural aphrodisiac: as early as the 1700s, physicians recommended it to male patients to ensure potency. And the sweet, welcoming odor has a euphoric effect that sets the sensual mood.
3. Orange scent
The citrus smell produces an arousal reaction in almost 20 percent of men, and it makes sense. Oranges conjure up thoughts of sun, of sweetness and love.
4. The scent: Chocolate
Of course, chocolate is on the list because chocolate is the greatest thing that there is after grilled Chicken. lol
5. The scent: Rose Oil
It’s rare to find a scent more associated with love and romance than the rose. Rose oil helps with circulation and blood flow — all-important for sex. But, of course, it’s a very sensual and romantic scent that is emotionally uplifting.
Overall, Men Need Signs of Interest to approach you
Think about how scared you are to walk up to a man to say “I like you”
that is exactly how scared men are to approach ladies. Not because the ladies can beat them up, but for the fear of facing possible rejections.
They need you to give them non-verbal clues that you are interested in and open to approach.
Such clues include a smile directed to them, facing them when they start talking with you, not ignoring or looking over your shoulder at them. Complementing what you like about them and flirting lightly.
With these, you can become attractive to your man.